My experience taught me:
1. You will grieve for a lifetime.
2. We all have the date.
3. You do not grieve alone.
4. My faith carried me when I could no longer carry myself.
5. Your grief is triggered by the ordinary things around you.
6. Birthdays and holidays are all hard, especially the first year or two.
7. I discovered families that had been through a similar loss were the source of comfort.
8. I learned you will not be the person you were before your loss.
9. Grief teaches me to appreciate the small things in life.
10. Share your story with joy, help others and honor your loved ones.
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Meaningful Ways to Honor a Loved One:
Create a memorial garden in their memory. Plant their favorite flowers or a flowering tree to enjoy with a bench.
Make a memory quilt out their favorite clothes
Make a donation to a charity in memory of their birthday, Christmas, etc.
Create a memory box. Fill it with keepsakes that your loved one cherished.
Donate a gift to a child on your loved one’s birthday.
Get a personalized piece of jewelry.
Keep a keepsake book with pictures and special items
Commemorative brick pavers with their name inscribed
Make a garden stone or other garden art
Name a star
Make a memory bear or a pillow
Give a scholarship in their memory to college students
Custom memorial picture or watercolor
Visiting their favorite restaurant or place
Release a lighted lantern
Remember, there is no right or wrong way to honor someone’s memory. Choose
the activities that feel most comforting and meaningful to you.
The possibilities for creative gestures are endless.
What are some things you do to remember your loved one?
Grace for Grief
Great lists! We got a small, indoor fountain for our kitchen, inscribed with a quote and his name. We love it. We also wear one of his t-shirts, from time to time, but especially when we go to his favorite place.
I like your list of practical suggestions. Thank you.